OK enough of that for now!

So I wanted to get some of the "sensual stuff" on the blog, so that I would have it for when I write my book. (OK, when I make enough to have ~Sallie~ write my book.) I think it's so darned important, this "sex stuff." I hate to say it, but I am constantly amazed at my Parties at how much people don't know. Usually "happily married" people -- and YOUNG people. I think my Bond grrl book might be subtitled "this you wish your mother had taught you (but maybe she herself didn't know)."

I love learning and exploring all this stuff -- and literally, none of this is Earth-shattering. I keep getting bummed out at how "Puritanical" the standard American household is -- and how much women are SCREAMING (inside) for this information. Someone once told me that I was the "go-to grrlfriend" when it came to this sort of thing -- because I am pretty matter of fact about it all and didn't make them feel "dirty or stupid."

I make it my business to know about things that I might not "do" myself -- I was just learning about shibari (Japanese bondage involved rope-typing). I think it's important to know that anything between two consenting adults is A-OK. Don't let society dampen your spirits -- don't do anything you don't want to -- but TRY anything you MIGHT (with someone whom you trust).

That's my thoughts for this eve-uh-ning.